Life

Game of Life is 50/50... Just as you claim hard to get, it is no guarantee to get the right person but taking your time sure is good... I too, take my time. That's not claiming hard to get, its knowing what you want and what comes your way...

So those claiming hard to get, in as much you do it so you don't feel cheap, its not a guarantee, as someone out there wasn't that difficult yet they found rest in someone...and you didn't after playing your hard game.

Some people had sex after some months and it didn't work out... Some had sex not quite long and they are happy... It is the heart that loves and the head that understands.

If you play hard on me you get worked up... But I am not the type that toast babe... NO... I have never done that in case you never knew. Some people toasted and it worked for them, some people like me, it is just a heart of mutual recognition but here I am, NO PARTNER...

Yet it didn't change the fact, I won't toast and will never toast a gal directly until death. What am I saying?

Some will tell you, whether sex in a relationship or sex after marriage is not a guarantee for happy marriage... Yes, because in some cases it has been proven true. But don't let that change your discipline as long as it's positive and wise.

Telling me to go start toasting gals just to find a girlfriend is not WISE... I know the way that best suit my discipline. Which is that stage of friendship, then an unspoken chemical reaction... You won't say a word but the feeling has been established. So I don't want to feel like am dragging someone into something they are not ready for... But this unspoken mutual feeling make things easy for me that "WE BOTH" need each other and no one is forcing the other as the case may be.

Now see where the POSITIVE falls in... It is the truth in your heart that keeps it going on a long way. So whether It happened now, then, whether it came this way, that way it is the truth inside us and the wisdom that maketh way for us...

If you are positive but not wise It is like that man of knowledge without understanding... They will always be a conflict and break down... Vice versa

So if you have to keep yourself until marriage, that's positive that needs wisdom... Know what you want and the type of person that suits your standard. Also know that its not a guarantee and what guarantees this is, your wisdom.

Some will have God but aint wise even. Yet they dwell in ignorant.

Preferring an unspoken mutual attraction is not negative too... And not a guarantee, its the wisdom.

Claiming hard to get may not be bad as some cheap people pretend to be so they won't be tagged "cheap" which means its not even a guarantee. But taking your time off is not bad, but not a guarantee that the next person will be good, your wisdom is constantly required.

I wish you all a happy new month of OCTOBER, I pray whatever good and positive is of our heart desire be fulfilled. Amen.